1 Peter 3:4 KJV
[4] “but let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.”
Some women are brawlers, some are babies, and some are braggers. Thank God this is not true about all women in general. I think there are a lot of women who will agree that these types of women do nothing but create havoc for everyone. They make their husbands, families, and everyone around them miserable. Perhaps some grow up and learn, but sadly, many never do. We live in a strange society where it’s hard for some women to settle down and be genuine. I think social media has done this to many young women today.
Think about how many women feel the need to compete with one another over who can be the best cook, the best at decor, or the trendiest. While there is nothing wrong with doing your best at all of these things for your family, some don’t know how to do it and be quiet about it. They not only want everyone to know how good they are, but they want other women to feel inferior to them. Even in the church realm as a pastor, I’ve seen women compete and hurt each other over who was more spiritual or submissive than the other. You might wonder how I know this. It is because they are sure to let everyone know in a very subtle way.
I know this devotional might sound rough, but I do not mean for it to be, nor do I believe all women fit this description. However, every woman who has been around a while knows what I’m saying is true. Also, I have a point to all of this, and I believe it will help any lady who will listen.
Peter clearly states that a spiritual woman is not known for what she says but who she has become. Her words are not what wins the heart of her husband, but it is her spirit. That is also true on every level. I’m not saying a woman should be mute and never have a voice in her home. My wife and I discuss every major decision we make. I listen to her input, we pray together, and as the head of the house, I make the final decision. Through my years as a pastor, I have noticed that the spiritual women in our church all had this verse in common. They were, and are, of a meek and quiet spirit. That does not mean that they didn’t give a testimony in our church or have the ear of their husband. It means that their spirituality is visible more in what they didn’t say than what they did. They never promoted themselves as spiritual, but their actions revealed their walk with God. They are meek and quiet in their approach and pleasing in the sight of God.